Your time                            Your place                              Your way

The Ceremony is the Heart of your Wedding and the Story of Your Love is the Heart of the Ceremony.

What makes your wedding unique?  You two and Your Love Story!

* how you met and developed a relationship * what you truly love and bring out in each other * why you are marrying * what you plan to create together *


Celebrating your love and promising your commitment to each other,
your wedding can express your own style in so many ways -

* strutting down the aisle to Aretha Franklin's R E S P E C T
* state park forest where the bride wore white lace gown over hiking boots
* an aisle of sunflowers stuck in the sand on the beach
* bilingual and Spanglish ceremonies in backyard or chapel
* Scottish and Jewish wedding with bagpiper and canopy
* blended family with kids blending colored sands in a keepsake jar
* unity candles lit by families then the couple lighting their own
* releasing butterflies symbolizing wishes of happiness
* costumed renaissance wedding feast (pic below)
* spring flowered mountain meadow ceremony and picnic reception
* readings and pronouncement of marriage by family and friends

The traditional wedding sequence:

Procession - officiant, wedding party, groom and bride assemble

Convocation - welcoming guests, establishing occassion,
noting joining family through marriage

Invocation - inviting ancestors and spiritual world to witness and bless

Readings, songs or other contributions, perhaps from family and friends

Address - what marriage means

Your Love Story - unique, personal and memorable

Expression of Intent - "do you...?"  "I do"

Vows - traditional and/or original exchange of promises

Rings - blessing and exchange of rings

Pronouncement - "I/we now declare you husband and wife"

Kiss  (!)

Benediction - together everyone blesses you as a couple   

Recession - off you go into your married life

All this is around 20 minutes.

Your ceremony can be exactly as you would like it to be!

Thank you again and again for the lovely ceremony. Everyone wanted to know where I found the wonderful officiant. Even the hard core non-romantics reported that they actually stopped and took a breath when you asked them to. I received many comments that it was the most beautiful wedding that they had ever been to, EVER!  It was certainly just as Stuart and I wanted it to be.
Love,
Karen and Stuart 

Judith Iam has a rich background in transpersonal psychology and spirituality, art and activism; widely traveled throughout the world; biofeedback/stress reduction/ mind-body awareness for 13 years at Santa Rosa Junior College; healing bodywork and energywork; producing and co-producing consciousness raising, wholistic events of all sorts.  Grounded in metaphysics and perennial philosophy, the spiritual essence of all religions and traditions.

Judith Iam is gifted in perceiving and celebrating the moment, drawing out feelings and dreams, creating connection, eloquently speaking from the heart.  

Happy to serve you and perform your Wedding Ceremony!